Domestic Discipline

To most submissive males, Domestic Discipline is the holy grail of loving Femdom relationship. Living in a household where rules are clearly defined by a superior female authority (the dominant wife) is the core of the Femdom lifestyle and a source of inspiration for most Femdom couples.

In a loving Femdom relationship, domestic discipline stands for hierarchic order within a family using disciplinary acts and punitive measures to enforce the dominant wife's authority over the submissive male husband. This lifestyle is very real, where couples are making a conscious decision to incorporate discipline and authority into their day to day life.

The boundaries are clearly laid and actions have consequences. Those boundaries are typically enforced by the dominant wife on a 24/7 basis. In some cases, a stern look is all it takes to put the submissive male husband back in line, but occasionally losing a privilege or exercising physical punishment is far more effective in making a point.

Domestic discipline is a recipe for true happiness to both parties. It enables a loving and nurturing relationship usually far greater than in most modern households, since there is no power struggle between the genders. The submissive husband simply accepts the dominant wife's role as mentor, protector and disciplinarian. The wife has the last word, period. The husband is willing to accept absolute control over his life, financially, sexually and socially, because he understands that this disciplinary arrangement is driven by the love of his dominant wife and that she will only correct his ways for his own benefit.

There is a very intriguing aspect to this lifestyle, that is how to act in public, such as how to behave in front of the kids, family dinners, or going out with friends. Some couples are totally open about their lifestyle, while others maintain a secretive way of life which they only practice behind closed doors, but it is always very clear who makes the final decision.

The intensity of domestic discipline is so immense that there are truly endless possibilities to this lifestyle. Rome was not built in a day, and so are Femdom relationships. Domestic discipline sets the perfect stage to grow such relationship overtime, where the wife gradually embraces her dominant role and the submissive husband learns to treat his wife as the Goddess she is. It is really all about love, mutual respect and the freedom to make your own choices in life.

Female Corporal Punishment

Female Corporal Punishment is an act of discipline where the Mistress deliberately inflict pain to correct the submissive male's behavior. Corporal punishment was a common form of punishment back in history and was usually practiced by justice systems, schools and domestically.

There is a common misperception of corporal punishment as a form of torture. There is a profound difference between the two punishment forms. Although both involve physical pain they serve two different objectives. Torture is usually inflicted in order to break one's will or for the pure amusement of the dominant party (what is also known as Sadism). Corporal punishment is practiced as a form of discipline in order to correct one's behavior.

Craving for corporal punishment was commonly associated with past childhood experiences until it was disputed by Sigmund Freud who claimed that corporal punishment is derived by early sexual desires and is rarely related to actual real-life experiences.

In context of BDSM corporal punishment is a form of correction. It is usually associated with role play games such as school teacher & student, interrogating a prisoner, domestic discipline and more. The atmosphere is usually strict, where the Mistress proves her capability of restraining the sub and correcting his ways.

The corporal punishment scene may be light to severe, and usually leverages numerous punishment techniques from face slapping to over-the-knee spanking, to sever flogging and caning on the back and buttocks, sometimes using a birch or a bamboo cane on the victim's bare hands and feet.

Combined with the strict attitude of correcting one's ways, corporal punishment represents the most severe form of physical punishment. Hence, it also poses a challenge for the Domme to properly measure the pain threshold of the submissive while administrating the corporal punishment. A common solution to this problem is to use 'safe words' which are set in advance and used by the submissive when limits are reached.

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Facesitting Femdom

Facesitting, also known as queening, is a sexual practice in which one partner sits on or over the other's face, typically to allow, or force, oral-genital or oral-anal contact, or to further ass worship or body worship. It is common for this position to form part of BDSM, involving dominance and submission, though this need not be the case. Within a BDSM or D/s context, face-sitting can be an especially intense form of erotic humiliation. Facesitting is common among dominant and submissive individuals, for demonstrating superiority and for sexual gratification. It is also practiced by couples for cunnilingus where the woman kneels over the man, and sits on his upper chest rather than face. The full-weight body-pressure, moisture, sex odors and darkness can be perceived as powerful sexual attractions or compulsions. The person sat upon may be in bondage, sexually submissive, or simply held down by the body-weight of the other person. Sometimes special furniture is used, such as a smotherbox or queening stool. A queening stool is a low seat which fits over the submissive's face and contains an opening to allow oral-genital and/or oral-anal stimulation of the domme while seated. In modern BDSM vernacular, the queening stool allows open access to the crotch while seated. The position allows the pelvic floor muscles (PFM) to relax and therefore partly exposing the labia minora to intimate touch. The gluteus maximus, levator ani and puborectalis or sphincter recti muscles, the major muscles of the crotch, can relax and sag allowing easy access to the vagina and rectum. The queening stool is also related to a "smotherbox," which also allows the person under the seat to be locked in place, restrained by the neck as in a set of stocks.

Female dominance

Female dominance refers to BDSM activities where the dominant partner is female. The submissive partner may be of either sex. A female dominant is sometimes called a Domme or Femdom, Domina, or dominatrix. In the English speaking world, "mistress" is by far the most common dominatrix title, while in most of continental Europe, the most common titles are, and some are etymologically related, maitresse, maid, maidress, matress, mother, mate, madre, or momina. Femdom activities may draw on all areas of BDSM. Feminization and strap-on dildo play are common activities, as well as panty fetishism and boot worship. Cuckolding is also an area of female dominance. This is just a short introduction about FEMDOM or female dominance this blog will give you great insight on what is the real meaning of a female dominance is and what are the methods and techniques they use to dominate their slave, this site also tell different femdom stories and share some great femdom pictures I just hope that reading this blog will help you understand what is it in to femdom and why more female are into it.